Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Epic Confession

Ok, I have been keeping something from you loyal readers.  On November 6, 2010 I ran a 10K benefiting Wildlife.


There it is.  I feel better now.  I'm sorry for not telling you sooner, but I ran the race for myself, by myself.  I woke up insanely early, drove to a field in the freezing cold because the surly woman handling the registration told me in a thunderous phone tone, "BE THERE EARLY!" 

I was there early, so early in fact that I was the first person there aside from the race coordinators.  I sat in my car alone for an hour and a half waiting for the race to start.

I ran the race.  It was cold.  I kept my pace time.  It was cold.

The run was more difficult than it should have been.  The course was mostly flat, but I was sucking wind like some kind of Day 1 Biggest Loser contestant.

I had some suspicions about why the run was so challenging.   When I got home, P and J congratulated me on completing my run, which I knew was going to be the last of the season because I am NOT a cold weather outdoor runner.  I went to the bathroom to take a shower, and a test.

All I had to do was hold the ETP test stick in my hand and I swear that second little pink line appeared.

Positive. Confirmation that baby Phillips #2 was the cause of torturous run.

I am due in early July, which means at the time of this post I am 14 weeks pregnant and into the second trimester.  The first trimester was full of puke and extreme fatigue, but that's a story for another post.

Parker will tell you he is going to be a "big butter" and sleeps in a "big bed" and he is a "big boy."  I think in his mind these things are all linked because he spits out all these facts in one long sigh.

He knows there is a baby in my belly, but is not quite sure what exactly that means.  Thankfully, he has a few friends who are about his age who are also going to become "big butters" or "big sissers" this summer.  I feel like I should establish some sort of toddler support group for them all.

At this point, I have a few extra doctor appointments with a few specialist because of P's issues when he was born, but nothing I am overly concerned about.  On February 10th we should know if we are expecting a boy or a girl.

We are excited about this baby, but as anyone who is doing this-again- will tell you, the excitement is different.  I know what is coming.  I am not blindly and naively picturing myself gently rocking a nursing newborn in my glider while quietly listening to classical music to stimulate the little one's brainwaves. My mind's eye is not projecting a picture of me running errands easy breezy style while my infant sleeps soundly in the Baby Bjorn. 

I know this baby will take time away from Parker. I know sleepless nights, nursing (painful, merciless nursing), and explosive diapers are in my near future. 

I also know those quiet moments in the middle of the night, when it is just me and the baby, the world becomes a magical place.  I know Parker will be an amazing leader and supporter (maybe not right away, but eventually).  I know this baby will add a new element to our family that will bring laughter, chaos and love.  That is where the true excitement is found.


Lynsey said...

:) i can't wait to meet the new addition... and to meet P as the big butter!
and LOL at the toddler support group... i think you may be onto something!! hahaha

Misty said...

Awe, congratulations! So exciting!

mom said...

I know this isn't all about me (not sure why though), but I have a conference to go to in New Mexico around your due date. Soooo, maybe this kid could be a week earlier???? Just kidding!!

Sue said...

Congrats! That is great news! We wish you a smooth pregnancy and best wishes for continued good new in 2011.

OurFamilyFour said...

Congratulations! All the best to you and yours. It's a fun and crazy ride. :)

Nancy C said...

So wonderful. So exciting. So glad to hear that you're feeling better. Congrats to you and the big butter. And Josh, of course.

Lesley said...

Nik, I couldn't be happier. Your news yesterday (and I'm glad I hadn't read your blog yet), made me smile. I think it's so wonderful and can't wait to be part of your second pregnancy... now that I know what the hell it's all about, and what a new baby means. :-) I love you so much!!!!!

ModernMom said...

So exciting!!!! Congratulations to you:)